"THE CALL TO DISCIPLESHIP"
Finally, aparneomai can denote a positive form of denial. Jesus exhorts all disciples to deny themselves, take up their cross daily, and follow Christ (Mt 16:24; Mk 8:34). This is a call to selfless, total commitment to the Lord. In a real sense, we face a double choice: to choose to put our own interests and ourselves first and thus deny the Lord Jesus, or else to deny ourselves and in place of that to choose to live for God.
(3) Finally, the NT applies stauros metaphorically to all followers of Christ. Jesus declares in the gospels that the way of Christ, the way of the “cross,” is also the way for all Christians as we take up our cross and follow him (Mt 10:38; Lk 9:23; 14:27). These sayings of Jesus implore Christians to bear the cost of Christian discipleship and be willing to sacrifice ourselves in service to him and to others. This message is as pertinent to us today as it was to the disciples in Jesus’ day. We too have a “cross” to bear in our faithful and obedient life and witness